Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
We all face choices everyday some harder than other some made by others. Yesterday I had my heart torn out and served to me on a platter by the one I love. I was gong to say we both didn't plan on tis happening but then again I wonder for her. The move out for me was way to easy on her, the cleaing out of all my things in the house seemed to quick.
Anyhow back to choices, so now I need to choose when I need to take action for a divorce I don't want. She has stated she just wants to be seperated now and that means that she wants to what she wants and see who she wants. I am sorry what the hell, she wants her cake and eat it too. She expects me to take time to work on myself. I have been doing that since february and made great progress with one exception. No progress in aving this marriage. I told her we went into this marriage together we should at least have the respect to get out of it together and not force it onto one individual. So the choice I need to make is do I just start the ball rolling on this or do I allow a little more time to accept this and go into with acceptance instead of saying I have to file a divorce I do want. Do you guys know what I am saying?? I know its done but no one should be forced to do something they don't want. I was thinking of giving myself til January 1 2008. This should give me time to fully accept this and proceed with clear emotionally thought.
What do you think???
Anyhow back to choices, so now I need to choose when I need to take action for a divorce I don't want. She has stated she just wants to be seperated now and that means that she wants to what she wants and see who she wants. I am sorry what the hell, she wants her cake and eat it too. She expects me to take time to work on myself. I have been doing that since february and made great progress with one exception. No progress in aving this marriage. I told her we went into this marriage together we should at least have the respect to get out of it together and not force it onto one individual. So the choice I need to make is do I just start the ball rolling on this or do I allow a little more time to accept this and go into with acceptance instead of saying I have to file a divorce I do want. Do you guys know what I am saying?? I know its done but no one should be forced to do something they don't want. I was thinking of giving myself til January 1 2008. This should give me time to fully accept this and proceed with clear emotionally thought.
What do you think???
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
What exactly is everyone trying to achieve? She is the only one who can change her satisfaction with life, with you, with herself.
Sounds like it's time for you to make a few statements/requests of your own.
The best thing for me is to handle all this with composer, grace and respectfulness. Though I will never understand all of this I will now start looking for a new sense of direction in my life. I hope to handle closure with grace and dignity. We all deserve happiness. And I want each and everyone of you in here to find that happiness to find peace in your soul.