My daughter is 14 years old, and my STBX did not try to hide his affairs from her. He only told her that if she told me he would never speak to her again. Now he has been gone 3 weeks tomorrow, and has only seen her once. She is very much a daddy's girl. The last time he left, I put her on a cell phone plan of her own, just so he would not have to call and talk to me in order to talk to his daughter. He was fine with that then, but now if she calls him, it goes straight to his voice mail and if he has the time, he will call her back. How can I keep this from affecting her? She sits at home and cries. I try to do everything that I can for her, but my parents tell me that I am giving in way too much. Oh did i mention that she is very good at using one of us against the other. I NEED HELP!!
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