i live in California and we haven't finalized our divorce yet but my stbx doesn't want to help with my 18 and 20 year old even though they live with me and go to school full time. i know legally he isn't obligated but isn't he ethically/morally obligated? what's the usual way to do it? i know he loves his kids so its not like he doesn't have anything to do with them. i know i can't really expect the court to make hin pay. anyone have experience with this? am i wrong to expect some help from him? he's not helping with community college either. we were trying to do this without lawyers as we both can't afford one but how do i make sure my kids are taken care of? my the way i also have a 14 year old and i didn't ask for alimony but nothings final yet so now i'm thinking it's in my best interest to go after alimony to compensate for the old boys. all that money would go to them anyway. Sorry for the rambling....i'm just frustrated.
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