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I think the way CS is spent should be monitored. I think if courts can monitor the people who pay to make sure it is being paid, that there should be some accountability on how it is being used.
Thank God I finally got custody of my oldest.
My child support did not go for him at all. It went to new bongo jeans, and other clothes and to pay for partying. Hell my oldest did not even live with her, but with her great grandmother who I went to weekly and gave more money out of my pocket for diapers and medicines at that time.
I tried to make a stink about it, but all I got was was the courts did not care.
I am not saying this happens all the time. I am just saying I think there should be some accountability on both sides of the coin. Sometimes courts do not give custody/support to the right parent...
/rant off.
Odd that they'd arrest him for failure to pay, while unemployed, unless he missed the Court date to show that he was out of work.
If she works and is using the lack of CS to keep the kids from him, he has a strong case to get CS reduced based on her income in the calculation and another case against her for keeping the kids from him, breaking Court Ordered visitation... which I assume he has? If not, he should file for it.