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Child Molestors on DS

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With the recent discoveries of certain individuals on DS that are stalking younger children, I woul dlike to caution all DSer's about posting pictures of their children on their pages and then posting where they live in real life. How hard would it be for some of these predators to beable to figure out where you live and who you children are.

Though we are trusting here on this site. It has become somewhat apparent that there are stalkers here and the last thing we want is our little ones to get hurt because we want to share pictures of them online.
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You can never be too careful.
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Thank you .. removed my childs photo's... you are too correct
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Good advice.
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Thanks for the thought. I used to have my nephews' pics up on my profile, and when I told my SIL that I had them up she had a fit, and dummy me couldn't understand why. I did take them down and after this thread as well as others warning about predators, I can certainly appreciate my SIL's concern.
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Thanks, I did the same thing - no pic of son. Thanks a million. I forget sometimes what some people can do, since I would never think of things like that. Too bad it's like that
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i wholeheartedly agree. no kid pics here....
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Well I stopped in to say hi. Glad I did I took off the pics of my little ones too. Thanks SP
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THANK YOU for that reminder of the dangers - I was longing to put photos up of my grandchildren, but my d.i.l. was very concerned, so I obviously wouldnt have, I know she is right and you are right...thank you! sad times *sigh*
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Thanks for the reminder. Just took my picture down
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Jim you know I love you, but I refuse. This is my haven, I will not be threatened by some pervert, but you know what happened to me when I was a child... before the internet, before what I do for a living was even a possibility.... so, if anyone even attempted to contact my child it would only be a matter of minutes before I had enough information to give to the police and the race would be to see if they could find enough pieces to identify the body. Sorry just feel VERY strong about this, hence the reason I got into computer security to begin with.
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took my monkeys pix down....thx for the tip!
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Tragic that I can't share the pride and joys of my life with my new friends but you are all too right. Thanks very much for the reminder - took my pics off too.... I had no idea about the "recent discoveries" that you referenced. Thanks again for helping me keep my kids safe.
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What some people do.. is post their pic;s , email your friends here and take them down in say like 5 minutes....

much safer
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I won't even put their pics on my myspace with it set to private. My stbx has them on his though and I hate that he does.
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Just me and the ex for now on. Thanks.
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