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Mine still denies it and even though she is living with him, she says "he is just a friend". I find it funny, especially when she tells "other" people her and he have been together for "this" amount of time. Doing the math, her and I were still together based on what she says.
There is no one reason for an affair.
The reasons for any affair are a combination of 3 different kinds of factors.
Factors that PUSH people into affairs (problems/faults/shortcomings of individuals or relationship).
Factors that PULL people into affairs (excitement, curiosity, enhanced self-image, "falling in love").
Societal factors that contribute to affairs (fascination with affairs, using sex to sell, deception learned as teens due to our inability to talk honestly about sexual issues, and the secrecy surrounding this issue that serves to protect those having affairs from dealing with the consequences of their actions).