
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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So many of us in here have had our lives ripped apart by cheaters. I really fail to understand WHY they do it.
I know a woman who has been cheating on her husband for at least 10 years. She justifies it by constantly telling everyone what a jerk he is. At one point she was having an affair with a guy and then complained that he was cheating on HER! WTF. Another time she said "when I was dating (fill in name)". Duh lady, you're married you can't date! You're not dating your cheating.
It annoys me to no end that she has joined this community though she says ,I'm not divorced but I would like to be. NO she wouldn't, she would have left years ago if she wanted a divorce. She likes having him support her and being able to go out with other men!
I know a woman who has been cheating on her husband for at least 10 years. She justifies it by constantly telling everyone what a jerk he is. At one point she was having an affair with a guy and then complained that he was cheating on HER! WTF. Another time she said "when I was dating (fill in name)". Duh lady, you're married you can't date! You're not dating your cheating.
It annoys me to no end that she has joined this community though she says ,I'm not divorced but I would like to be. NO she wouldn't, she would have left years ago if she wanted a divorce. She likes having him support her and being able to go out with other men!
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As far as morals. If you give up on them now, that makes it just that much easier for the next generation to push the envelope further. Instead I choose to stand by my moral foundation and do my best to pass this on to my children so hopefully tomorrow will be a little brighter.
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It has Nothing to Do with Sex. In fact, if Real Sex is Happening-You're damned lucky.
then go screw whoever else you want to..
if you stay.. you stay faithful.
as for sex.. the last 5 years of the marriage before we separated.. no sex.. and i was faithful.. our break up was not due to lack of intimacy.. that was low on the list. After the separation took place.. oh yeah.. I went out and got laid.. I am not asham to admit it.. I found comfort in the arms of someone.
And I felt no guilt, no shame.. the marriage had ended.. his choice.. mutual choice really... and it was not going to be mended...it was divorce court and finalized 3 years after the separation.
yes..3 years...
if you want sex... and that is the basis of your relationship.. then you have a sexual addiction.. and need help before you get some nasty disease and die.. or spread it... do not go out and find some married person to pull into your sick world... that is so wrong.. and do not ruin a marriage with your sickness.
sorry for the vent and confession.. I know a lot of you think it is wrong to be 'dating' while you are separated.. but I did.. and I felt no shame.. it was something I did for myself.. if I had waited til after the divorce it would of been close to 8 years without any.