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cant move on

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I NEED HELP...

after 3 years ben has thrown me and our 1 year old son out forcing me 2 stay with my mother she is constantly swearing and yelling mixed in with all my stress i am not coping i have nowhere else 2 go i have no friend ethier i feel so alone and i find myself crying all the time mum is yelling at me 2 forget him but i cant how can he b so heartless and creul 2 me and lucas after everything we have been through? its not fair like i said i have no friends here so i have noone to talk 2... im trying 2 b as strong as i can but i feel myself falling apart i have never been through this much pain im scared i will lose my son 2 after that i will end my life wot is the point of me being here wen i have nothing or noone to live 4? ben took everything my heart, my soul and just crushed it... my whole body aches bcoz its like he has used me i dont kno how 2 move on i have noone 2 cuddle me and say everything will b ok i have noone...
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everything will be okay. The pain will come and go. It is a real pain in your chest. I found that out the same way. I gladly don't have any kids. He is hartless if a kid is involved! Hang in there! Do it so you don't lose your nerve and can't fight for your son. He should be your # 1 rite now! huggs n kisses sad
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Work on yourself, for yourself and Lucas.

Now is the time to make sure you are both healthy as you need each other to lean on.

Find a councilor, use your friends as a support, focus on yourself and baby and just go one step at a time.

It does get better, I assure you
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