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cant breathe

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rocking, making grunting sounds, thinking about how to sort out my business so I can end things........how get past it
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one day at a time. change what you can, try to let the things you can't change not bother you. I know it's hard but it's kind of how it is.
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One day at a time is sometimes easier said than done. The first two weeks I wasn't even minute-to-minute. I was breath-to-breath...completely broken.

Pray for help and strength and you WILL receive it.

Things WILL get better and you WILL survive this. Take it breath-by-breath, if you have to. Then by minutes, hours, and days.
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all i can say is ...i know...i understand...i am crying with you
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Oh yes I remember that. You feel like you can't survive this, but you will, trust me.
I was a total wreck and I'm still here. It will not be easy and the oain will stick around but it will get easier. Do not look too far into the future. Your goal is to get through the day. One minute at a time. I f you have an opportunity to get out and do stuff, do it, even if you don't feel like it.
My heart goes out to you. Let me know how I can help.
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most of us know what you're going through, we've been there. everythings going to be ok. i know it doesnt seem that way but it will.
Thriver
Thriver
I know. Just let yourself. It's an essential part of healing. It will pass. Try not to berate yourself for this stage of healing.
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