Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I had a discussion with my stbx.during the talk he mentioned something intresting.If there is a problem weamen intend to forget about all the good things that we have done for them,he said.Is it realy true?i told him after we are finished he should consider marrying a man knowing he is gonna face the same problem with all weamen,seems to me his problems finds their way back to him with that kind of mentality.this is what i got out of it, while i was complaining about his behavior and asking for it to change like,cheating, watching porn,having no kind of relationship with kids,taking no resposibility for his actions, asking for physical and verbal buse to stop...,there is a little voice in his head that tells him:what an ungratful woman she turned out to be ahhh! they are all the same.huh! no wonder he can't hear me i'm just not loud enough compare to that little voice of his!!!
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It is a very common and unhealthy practice for people with poor self-esteem (among other problems) to blame others for everything. Don't you know it's your fault that he cheats, watches porn, has no relationship with his kids and is abusive? Of course it is. I'm sure you're such a bitch he just can't control himself. Sorry - can you tell I have experience with this? Nothing was ever his fault and still isn't to this day. He never wants to be in on decisions, because then he could be held accountable. He would much rather have me make all decisions so he can retain 'bitching rights'. I'm so glad I'm out of that verbally and emotionally abusive marriage - best thing I ever did!
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