My husband of 22 years told me on August 3rd that he thought he wanted a divorce. We've been together 28 years (I was 17 and he was 16). I didn't even know there was a problem. We have 2 fantastic kids, 19 & 16, that are devastated...no history of divorce in our families and I do not have any divorced friends to lean on for support. We've had a wonderful life, have a beautiful home...from the outside most would think our life was charmed. I have been a stay at home mom for 20 years, have no income or money of my own, no real job skills...have only focused on being the best wife and mom I could be. I am scared to death of the future, have no idea how to be without him and on my own. I cry non-stop and feel myself being pulled into a depression that is all consuming. I simply do not know what to do.
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