I've been seperated and in the divorce process for about 7 months. Married 17yrs. The divorce is my doing for many reasons. My STBX is very much against the divorce and is holding out all hope of reconciliation. I am so over him and need to breath. I've made this so clear. The problem is we have 3 kids (16,10,5 yo boys) who make it very necessary to communicate and coordinate on a daily basis. My STBX manipulates situations to end up with he and I at various activities together with the kids. I understand that this will happen many times for our children's activities but there have been times where it's not necessary. Yesterday I took the kids to a minor-league baseball game and he came along. He thanked me for allowing him to come along. I didn't want him to come or ask him to come. He just doesn't get it. I really feel ill when I have to be around him. I don't want to be a bitch but I want my space! Is there anyone here dealing with the same situation???
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