I'll try to make this short.I'm 33, my husband is 36. Well, 2 montha ago, my husband of 5 yrs (18 yrs we were together),announced that he was "done w/being married, & wanted to "live his life his own way." Which is being a DJ in bars,& pretty much partying w/his friends. For all these years, I had emotionally supported him with his dreams,etc. while we both worked. anyhow, we are still talking& hanging out, i just recently asked him if he still wants to go thru w/the divorce, he said yes. He states that "his lifestyle choice isn't fair to me," & that is one of the reasons (excuses) of why he left. He makes himself seem like if he's a "martyr"; in that he claims that i'll see down the road that his decision was "good" for me, that it's going to do me good. I feel so frustrated at that & angry. Not once have I told him cruel things, nor have I ever in all the yrs. said "no, I don't want you to pursue your creative ideas, etc". Because of all the years that we had been together, it is SUPER HARD for me to just drop him & his family. Right now I can't see how he is going to regret his decision in the end, even though that's what my close friends&fam. say. I'm know I'm only 33, but don't know if I can give of myself again in the future to someone else.
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