My divorce is almost final, and I find myself becoming increasingly haunted by thoughts of "the dream" that didn't turn out like I had hoped/planned. I keep fantasizing about a wonderful life with my STBX, while I know the reality will be more of the same stuff that led us to this point. Rather than looking forward to my new life, I find myself becoming increasingly depressed. I end up feeling like the only way to end my depression is to get "the dream" back. I'm sure there are many of you out there who have had problems letting go. I'd really appreciate any thoughts you have on how you were able to get through this.
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