Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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can i join?

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i was just wondering if i can join this forum not being divorced but having my parents divorce 10 years ago is that ok or not?
deleted_user
deleted_user
If you need support or can offer support, of course. Your insight could be very helpful to some of us.
deleted_user
deleted_user
good advice is good advice. Welcome.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Hmmmm, I'm not sure how I feel about this. This forum does deal with adult issues and we are ppl with real feelings and issues. To have someone come in to "observe" or here just to be here doesn't sit well with me. I understand you have issues of your own but submerging yourself in th e problems of others is no way to deal with your own. And it simply doesn't make me feel comfortable. We sit here minute after minute to seek the comfort of those who know what we are going through.
Thank you for asking but I have to asking you how you'd feel spilling your guts about the issue that brought you here only to have someone who only "knows" someone who has your problem sit around and watch you be vulnerable.
I have weighed in on this and my voice is just one of many. Now, I'll sit on the sidelines to see what my compadre's have to say.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would not mind if you joined, I am so concered how this affects my children, with you coming from a divorce family, I would love to hear your thoughts on how this or that could affect the kids. I feel SO bad for them!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
You may have very well just become the one allot of people ask how the children feel during a time like this, and you may learn what your parents went through emotionally during their time of divorce. Welcome, find comfort and help where you can if you like.

Sincerely
deleted_user
deleted_user
Thank you to everyone who is willing to accept me into this forum. i am not just wanting to sit on the sidelines i want insight as to why the divorce happened and how my parents feel cos i have asked them but they say dont worry. if any of u have questions about how the children feel just send me a message and ill get bak to you asap
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