My wife of 22 yrs has crossed a line that i didnt think was in her! Everything has come to a head after not 1 but 2 x's have contacted her. I put 2 and 2 together thru our cell phone bill.Otherwise it would still be going on. Twice in the last 6 mo. shes lied and gone off to see him behind my back!! After i confronted her she says it been only as friends! here's where the doubt comes in. she's been in touch with him off and on for the last 19 yrs. How in the last 6mos. have they decided to see each other and expect me to believe that their just friend's especially since she confided in me that she slept with him before we got married when we just started dating. She confesses to me that she still loves me and wants to stay with me and our family but there still is to many unanswered ?!! I feel that she is holding back for the reason that if she were to TOTALLY spill her guts that i would leave and she has made it clear that she still wants our marriage. She could be lying to save face in front of the WHOLE FAMILY or she actuallt could be telling the truth. I dont know what to believe. We have an appt. next thursday and i hope she spills her guts! I could only go back to Nov. 06 on the cell bill. But for a fee i can go back a little over a yr. HELP,HELP,HELP!
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