
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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It will be a year December 1, since that faitfull day. The day that ended my old life and began my new life or the so called life I lead now. The vision of where I thought i'd be in a year is not here. Where am i ......... still lonelyness fills my days. It was a bad marriage from day one.... I was always made to feel less of and to stuff those violent one sided fights never shared them with my closets friends.... I lived for my children ..... now their gone for a whole week no contact....... and no reason to live on those weeks.....I tried church today to escape the lonelyness.... don't feel like it worked.... I've tried to fake it until I make it.... but the sadness and lonelyness have wrapped around me like a black cloud... I thought in a year it will all be ok I would be ok .. the year is almost here and I miss my daughters and life I thought I would have...does anyone know when you become ok? When you find peace and your not lonely anymore?
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Had a great therapist had to let her go when the x canceled my insurance. I have great family and friends who have been holding me together for a year. I've been a mom for 15 years and I don't know what to do with myself on those weeks when I'm alone.
So for yourself, and for them, take a small step every day to build that life. Not two steps, but not less than one. Every day, do just one thing toward that life. You have the raw material in your friends and family. Do you have any interests you could pursue?
Also, if you dig hard enough, you can often find free therapy in your community.
I have experienced clinical depression up close and personal and its not something I ever want to go through again.
Like someone else mentioned on this thread. You may be experiencing depression. Please see an MD and he/she can help you with it.
Don't give up until you get the help you need and yes I agree the greatest gift you can give your children is to be happy with yourself.
Hang in there. There is help out there.