Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I feel awful!
I am going to school to better our financial future, so it is for him that I am doing this. I can no longer do what I was doing because driving a truck leaves no time for my son. He is my world and I want nothing more then him to be happy, it makes my day just to see him smile.
My heart is breaking and I am at a loss of how to comfort him and let him know that I will always be there for him. I have always put him first above all others and things. Because of his father walking out on us when he was 2 and the recent break up of my x and I, my son, age 7, has a fear of me not returning. I came home from school last night and found he was still wide awake and when I asked if he was ok, he let me know of his fear that I would not return someday.
We did have counsel appointments because of his fathers stupidity and he was fine with it after awhile and the Dr. "released" us. I have made an appointment again because I just want to help him through this. I would just like some possible suggestions on how to make him feel better and more secure. He is all I focus on, he has all of my attention when we are together which is before and after school, except 3 nights a week when I am in school, I read to him, we play together and do allot of things together. If you have any idea on how to help, please let me know. This is breaking my heart more then anything right now.
Thank you.
I am going to school to better our financial future, so it is for him that I am doing this. I can no longer do what I was doing because driving a truck leaves no time for my son. He is my world and I want nothing more then him to be happy, it makes my day just to see him smile.
My heart is breaking and I am at a loss of how to comfort him and let him know that I will always be there for him. I have always put him first above all others and things. Because of his father walking out on us when he was 2 and the recent break up of my x and I, my son, age 7, has a fear of me not returning. I came home from school last night and found he was still wide awake and when I asked if he was ok, he let me know of his fear that I would not return someday.
We did have counsel appointments because of his fathers stupidity and he was fine with it after awhile and the Dr. "released" us. I have made an appointment again because I just want to help him through this. I would just like some possible suggestions on how to make him feel better and more secure. He is all I focus on, he has all of my attention when we are together which is before and after school, except 3 nights a week when I am in school, I read to him, we play together and do allot of things together. If you have any idea on how to help, please let me know. This is breaking my heart more then anything right now.
Thank you.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Maybe talking to him about plans for the future...like "what do you want to do for New Years..or what fun things can we do next year...lets make a list of big dreams and small dreams of events we can do, perhaps one for each month." Maybe have long span plans with you will help him see that you are never going to leave him. Put up a poster of your adventures that will happen. --like on march 10th we are going to eat way to much ice cream... June 16th we are going to have the worlds biggest water fight..Stuff like that maybe.
I hope that helped.
Any more ideals you might have would be gratefully appreciated as well.
Again, thank you very much.