
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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I have not really cried in a long time in the last week I have creid a few times and then today, I ended up at my mom's church it wasn't planned and I'm not religious but i just started crying and I couldn't stop. I creid for hours and I mean Bawling I was crying so hard I was shaking.
I don't understand I gues my husband hasn't loved me for I don't think he ever loved me actually. And all he did was tell me how miserable i made his life and how much he despised me and would oke about killing me. He threw me out and now he won't just let me go he has to make sure he makes me and the kids as miserable as possible. How do I handle this?
I don't understand I gues my husband hasn't loved me for I don't think he ever loved me actually. And all he did was tell me how miserable i made his life and how much he despised me and would oke about killing me. He threw me out and now he won't just let me go he has to make sure he makes me and the kids as miserable as possible. How do I handle this?
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Regarding him, distance yourself physically and emotionally as far as possible from him. Also seek information from a battered women's counselor. The important things are to take care of your mental health and the safety of you and your children.
I'll say a little prayer for you. Can't hurt.
Laugh when you feel like itband cry when you feel like it. Just DO what you need to to keep going in the right direction.
You are where you need to be and that is away from someone who doesn't love you. The mental and or physical abuse is bad enuogh but they kill your soul and that to me is unacceptable.
Hope you find the help you need and deserve. I'll be thinking about you. Keep us posted, please.
I am trying very hard liek Bert55 suggested to distance myself physically from my ex-bf, I say a little affirmation to myself every morning "today is going to be a happy day where i will be strong and live for myself."
I can only pray for you and for myself.
ok, how would we react to a stranger that mistreated us? we would not accept that behavior or it being a stranger, we would never see them again.
how would we react if a co-worker mistreated us, well we would have to report it to the boss or speak to them and let them know it's not acceptable.
how would we react if a friend or sibling treated us like that, we sure as heck would stick up for ourselves or choose not to be around them.
you are going to have to be straight forward and blunt with this man, and this is not easy, cut off all contact until he can treat you with respect. until he can speak to you without causing you distress, and until he can stop making you and your childrens lives miserable. cut him off cold.
if we would not let the people i have mentioned treat us in an unappropriate manner, treat the spouse or ex spouse the same way.
you deserve to be treated with respect and to be treated appropriately. and your children deserve to be respected and treated in an environment that does not cause them stress.
do your best. hang in there. we are all here for you.
ask God
feel the strength
know he loves you
Another child that I work with has a similar situation. Her father would tell her mom that he was going to kill her - again when he was mad only. One day, he locked her in her bedroom and tried to kill her. He just got out of prision for attempted murder and he is still trying to hunt her down. We have an order from the police not to give him any information. Do whatever you have to do to be safe. By the way, men who physically and sexually abuse their spouses are mcuh more likely to kill them. Please be safe. Don't underestimate him. Abusers need to feel like they are in control. He isn't in control right now and that may be very dangerous for you.
I am sorry that you have lived with that kind of misery. It doesn't suprise me that he kick you our right before you were going to leave. He has to have control. Run!
blessings