Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Now that my STBX has left I realize how much power and control he had over me and how much I gave away!How do I take steps everyday to end this?
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Step 2: Do things that the real you wants to do.
Step 3: repeat steps 1 and 2 everyday
By the way, you already did the biggest step...the realization!
Consider planning a trip or spend some time soul searching and figuring out what it is that makes you you. Don't let him or his control define you.
Maybe sign up for a non-credit class that interests you at a local college or take up a new hobby that you might not have otherwise tried.
Most importantly, learn from your mistakes. Don't beat yourself up about them, the past cannot be changed. But take responsibility for what you do have control over, which is HERE and NOW. This is your time to shine so take advantage of it!
Good luck!