Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Hello everyone! I am in the process of putting together a break up survival kit to go along with my book. The idea is to develop a gift set that concerned family and friends can send to their loved ones in order to give them something to smile about while they heal from a tough break up or divorce.
As part of the kit, I will be including a poster with what I call the break up commandments. It's basically a list of rules to heal by and I was hoping for some feedback about them.
Please let me know what you think and feel free to add to the list if you think I might have missed something valuable.
Thanks for your help!
BREAK UP COMMANDMENTS:
1. I shall NOT contact my ex.
2. I shall NOT keep pictures or reminders of my ex in plain view.
3. I shall NOT plot revenge against my ex.
4. I shall NOT blame myself for that which is out of my control.
5. I shall NOT be careless with my body.
6. I shall NOT be ashamed to cry or release my emotions.
7. I shall NOT isolate myself from my friends and family.
8. I shall NOT be careless with the hearts of others.
9. I shall NOT settle for less than I deserve.
10. I shall NOT stop moving forward.
As part of the kit, I will be including a poster with what I call the break up commandments. It's basically a list of rules to heal by and I was hoping for some feedback about them.
Please let me know what you think and feel free to add to the list if you think I might have missed something valuable.
Thanks for your help!
BREAK UP COMMANDMENTS:
1. I shall NOT contact my ex.
2. I shall NOT keep pictures or reminders of my ex in plain view.
3. I shall NOT plot revenge against my ex.
4. I shall NOT blame myself for that which is out of my control.
5. I shall NOT be careless with my body.
6. I shall NOT be ashamed to cry or release my emotions.
7. I shall NOT isolate myself from my friends and family.
8. I shall NOT be careless with the hearts of others.
9. I shall NOT settle for less than I deserve.
10. I shall NOT stop moving forward.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
And sea shells...the best revenge is living a happy life without your ex so that is definitely something to look forward to!
X. I will be respectful to X when around my children at all times.
I dunno...I just know my kids see and hear very well so we must play nice lol Not that hard though in my situation. Goodluck with the book!
I shall always love myself.
I shall always love my kids.