August 3,2007 for me.

You get used to it. At first it is hard though.

There are advantages to being alone. Its not all bad.

I've been sleeping in the middle of my bed. My atty. asked me to be amicable until the ex gets her house so nights she's not at her bf's house, she sleeps on the couch in the family room.

I am actually beginning to prefer it. Moved to the guest room on July 21, into an apartment Sept 10. While I miss the snuggling and cuddling and sometimes the conversation, I'm really enjoying this time. Hope you get to that point as well.

October 11 for me. I'm still not use to it. Can't seem to bring myself to sleep in the middle of the bed. Still sleeping on my side of the bed

welcome to your new life.

2/21/06 I moved my first batch to my new place, then went to my office to take a nap. I only had 4 hours before have to start.

The next night I slept alone in my new place for the first time.

Took a while to get used to, and then all hell broke loose a month later, termite swarms! then one month after that I quit smoking cigarettes and went through 3 weeks of withdrawal.

Then by the end of June I was looking towards the future and releasing the past.

Good luck :)

4/26/06 was my last cig: One year, six months, five days, 22 hours, 24 minutes and 12 seconds. 16618 cigarettes not smoked, saving $4,569.95. Life saved: 8 weeks, 1 day, 16 hours, 50 minutes.

I will after tomorrow night. He's packing up Friday. I think the quiet will be the hardest.

Never occurred to me to sleep in the middle of the bed. I'll try it!

This is a hard thing to get used to. Even when I get really tired I find myself not wanting to go to an empty bed. I usually wait until I just can't keep my eyes open before I finally climb into bed ... it has kept me from realizing that I am alone.

It has become easier the longer I have been on my own ... but I still long to have a warm, soft, female body cuddling next to me while I sleep.

I always woke up in an empty bed when he was living here (he couldn't keep himself away from his computer) so there was no adjustment there. However, I just love sleeping diagnally in my king size bed all night long. And not having to listen to him snore or smell his breath in my face or him hitting me in his sleep (yeah, right).

June 5th for me.

stbx is still in the house, but I've been sleeping alone for 3 weeks, and prior to that, we never really crossed over to each other or talked. So there isn't a lot to get used to. (also quieter without the snoring). I need to keep a TV on all night, I'm so fearful of waking up at night (which I do all the time) and have nothing but thoughts in my head. The TV blurs all that for me.

nope..been sleeping in a single bed for about 3 weeks. Even before this was going on, I was sleeping in an empty bed because he worked 3rd shift.

October 6Th for me and I hate it. But I am getting by as hard as it is. At least I don't have to fight for the blankets.

I lived alone for almost 20 years between my first marriage and this one that's just ending.

So it's not new to me, and I really think I prefer it. I just moved into my own apartment on September 15th of this year, and it is SO NICE not having to deal with all the pain and the drama!