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I am still on my journey thru this pending divorce. Not quite sure what stage I am in, but I still find there is still some bitterness in my heart for my stbx.
I don't like to feel this way - but it still finds a way to manifest itself someway and somehow.
I have dreams at least 2 or 3 times a week involving my stbx and in them I am clearly bitter at her. Mad at her for taking my son out of my life, and mad about moving him away from me.
She has been very cooperative up to this point. I should be thankful she is not giving me a hard time...
So....the question...how many of you were bitter towards a former spouse, and how did you overcome it....
Thanks!
I don't like to feel this way - but it still finds a way to manifest itself someway and somehow.
I have dreams at least 2 or 3 times a week involving my stbx and in them I am clearly bitter at her. Mad at her for taking my son out of my life, and mad about moving him away from me.
She has been very cooperative up to this point. I should be thankful she is not giving me a hard time...
So....the question...how many of you were bitter towards a former spouse, and how did you overcome it....
Thanks!
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