My STBX told his sister about our pending divorce today. She called me and wanted to talk. She said to me how much better off I will be without him. That I can start a new life and enjoy life for a change. I hear this from everyone who know us as a couple. Although in my head I know they are right, I cannot get my heart there. I want to believe they are right, but I am still so under his control. I am afraid I cannot make it on my own. I don't know how to make any decisions on my own. How do I get my heart to be on the same page as my head?
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