My 'best friend' has been calling my ex for almost a year, during which time I was pregnant with his child and in love with him. They both became too close during our relationship, but I forgave them (I trust it didn't turn into anything physical). This weekend, my ex told me Jenni (friend) has been calling him for several months now, just for 'chats', and asking him not to tell me. The reason he let me know was because he says he doesn't want her near our son if she can be that deceitful. The whole time she has been spending time in my house, even my bed when she stays. I am incredibly hurt, the break-up was awful, and now to find out my best friend has done this is even worse. How can she do that when he left me alone and pregnant? She should want nothing to do with him! She admitted this when I called her but won't give me any answers-- just cried. I want to know exactly how long she was doing this, if anything did happen when me and my ex were together, what her feelings are etc etc, but she is extremely stubborn and will not tell anyone. I also feel hurt our mutual friends haven't even mentioned any of this to her, I understand that they don't want to get involved but part of me just needs one of them to back me up. We have been best friends for 7 years, and I don't want to lose her, but how can I not? I can't trust her at all. Sorry for the long post.
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