
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Yes there are good honest loyal women out there. I must say that I am one of them and I thinks most of us here in DS are seeking the same.
I hope to get over my mistrust for people and one day be okay to share my life again. NOT READY JUST YET.
I share in your pain and fears.
I am sure there are women out there who are honest, loyal , caring ,loving and family oriented. I am so I am sure there are others but right not that is not what you need. You will be ready someday and you should not rush into anything else because "people" tell you are ready. You will know when you are ready
I don't know when/if I will be ready but I must believe that there is someone out there for me. I don't if I will that person within my lifetime.
I am praying for a good outcome for all of us.
I think there are LOTS of good women out there though, mainly because there are tons of skummy men out there who leave them.
I think, for me anyway, I'll trust my heart again to someone by moving VERY slowly. Start off platonic and let the friendship grow and develop slowly and naturally. Then, I think, it won't be so scarey. It'll just feel like the next natural step. I believe things all work out in the end.
Maybe it is time, or will be time soon, to make a new life for yourself. But that new life should be about YOU. Not you and someone else.
www.divorcecare.com
and
http://www.rebuilding.org/
Both of these are approx 12 weeks w/once a week sesssions. They both suggest that it takes a year for every 5 yrs you are married to recover emotionally. Both are highly reputable and you will more than likely find one or both being offered in near you.
There are lots of other things you can do to take your mind off of her. You need time to heal and to get back to being who you are first.
A very wise therapist once told me that one cannot successfully live with another person until one can successfully live with oneself.
((((hugs))))