Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My husband and I have been having issues the past few weeks and he tells me on saturday he wants to sepertate. I know he has been texting with this younger girl for a few weeks now. Since he told me he was leaving me he hasn't been keeping me in the dark completly. Out of the blue yesterday he calls me at work and wants to go get pumpkins with the kids. I agreed to do it. We came home he made dinner for us all and we went to bed. Well did I mention he is still sleeping in my bed yet? Well we you know went to far last night and this morning he tells me he feels guilty because he doesn't want to give me false hope. Then we had a good conversation this afternoon and low and behold be went to the bar after work with this young 20 something girl. Why do I do this to myself. It is almost like I have zero self respect.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
You must set boundaries NOW before this continues much longer and continue to get hurt. As long as you allow him to have his cake and eat it too, he will keep you hanging. You deserve far better than that! Truly, you do.
Wishing you all the best in doing what you need to do for you!
a) look for rental places for himself or
b) book you a babysitter and a marriage counselling appoint
Either is fine with you.
Don't think of it as making love, think of it as sex and you'll do fine. Also remember to use protection. If he's sleeping with someone else you're gonna need it. Stop beating yourself up for being human.