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Once I am out, and seeing a bit of stability, I will probably call it "Good" also.
We are not "Lawyered" up, at this point. We are working in Mediation. We are doing everything we can to Keep it There.
He makes me "crazy"-but that is no different than Normal Life was...and when I calm down, I realize that.
Hopefully, Someday, what looks Bad now, will become something that was for All of our Good.
She wants to remain friends after. That is where I have a problem, after all the lack of respect for me she's shown.
We may each be thinking of different issues.
My first Divorce spent years in court...custody issues. That was a Bad Divorce.
I don't want to See a Court Room-that would make this a Good Divorce, in my jumbled brain.
I don't want to fight over Who gets my old Mustang-I gave him the keys...I can't afford to restore it.
He keeps the businesses, I don't want to stay here.
Cut whatever isn't important to Not have to Fight anymore-to me that is worth anything.
But, when you are handed one, you work with what you have. I want to be able to leave with my dignity this time.
Even through infidelity on her part, we still love each other but could no longer remain married. We have kids together and they must at all times see a unified front when we are together. We argue much less, enjoy each others company, I got the house and the kids, she got the 401k (all of it.... kinda sore on that but oh well) and we pretty much see each other on a daily basis. Once I get past the money aspect of it, things will be great! Thank God for quick divorces!
if you mean the financial deals and the custody stuff.. I guess you can say I had a fair divorce... as I see it.
The judge suggested to me that I barter what little I had and mediate things.. so I did.
Yes, I do have the house, me and the 3 kids, but I now have a tenant, I declined spousal support, gave him my half of his pension and a bag of cash in the deal.
The kids wanted to live with me, so we have left it that way, little girls mind you - so I have primary custody. Their dad works shifts so that had to be considered.
We have joint guardianship and I can NOT move out of the specific region without us discussing it and probably going to court.
He can not leave the country with the children without my permission.
Basically he pays child support, sees the kids whenever he wants and I do let him take them away for weekends btw.
I do consult the children about plans and I do respect their wishes and try to find a balance.
the Death of a 26.5 year relationship can never be good.