I have been trying to be the good descent guy through all of her fantasy life during this seperation. I tried to understanding, forgiving, and caring through this whole to have it thrown back in my face each and every time. Of course she does not see it that way. She says hurtful things to provoke me and uses my goodness against me. I even felt guilty in taking what is leagally mine and that is have on the house. I didn't want it to impact the kids, but what does she expect me to start out my life with, nothing? I ihave been to accomidating to her. She needs a reality check and it will come. As tough as this decision for me to make I need to do right for me and then the kids. She is at the bottom of my list, hell she should consider herself lucy to even be on my list now.