From the time my divorce started until the time it ended I didnt have this luxury. It would have been nice but she took computer, and I cancelled internet.

I did go to a divorce workshop every monday night for 3 years so that helped. It was like in here except with real peoples sitting accross from you. Another real luxury.

I have quit going to the workshop and miss some of my friends there. I have gone back once or twice but pretty much am moving on.

I like it here for convenience, and hours of operation...lol. I feel that I spend too much time here for my condition, but I come anyway.

I feel I will eventually come in here less and less but not really suddenly leave.

The timing will depend on how full my life becomes.

I just joined and this has been my life line the past few days. It is comforting to know others feel the same and can relate and give advice and just listen to the venting. I'm sure i'll stick around awhile until I feel ok about being on my own. I agree with zoot that it will depend on how full life becomes for me in the future.

I can't leave, I enjoy my friends on here too much. i am already divorced and have happily moved on but sometimes I need to talk about what is happening to my children and the advice and support here is awesome. I also feel as though I can be of a support to others and that helps with the healing.

I left and realized, these are all the friends I have. :( You can never have too many~Cyber or real.

I have only been with DS for a few weeks. It has been a big help. I do feel that when I'm feeling a little better and I come on DS it brings back alot of the pain. I plan on being apart of this for a long time. I need the friends and support that comes with it. If I'm feeling OK, I may be able to help someone else.

Thanks DS and Thanks to everyone here.

I've been on for about 9 months. Found this site after my Divorce was final. I'll be here for a while. Not just for myself..but for the friends that I have made. I plan to stick around until they are on the other side..and doing okay.

This is my life line right now. I have NO plans to leave right now. I am at the very beginning of the emotional turmoil that is ahead of me. Mine moves out of the house this weekend.

I found this site a few weeks ago and as long as its here I'll be here. It has been so helpful for me I'm still in the early stages.

Why would I want to leave. All my friends live here. :)

Until my divorce is done I will probably stay here. I have found some amazing friends, or until April when we go to Vegas and I find out how weird some of you really are. LOL

I have backed off only because work has been so crazy busy! I love it here and like bananaman says....all my friends live here! :o) This place and the people here have really helped me to heal.

Lyn, you don't have to wait for Vegas for some of us. Trust me, I'm really weied!!

I have only been here a short month if that, I think. I have taken a few days here and there at times. But I find myself feeling responsibility to be here for others some times so I come back. I guess that is good cus then I can keep working on me ..

I am not sure I will leave. I guess what I mean is I see people get better since I have been here and they write a message saying tata! But wouldnt it be a good idea for someone who got help here, to stay and help others that are on here?

I feel I can leave, I just dont want to right now.

I was fortunate enough to find this place on my own. I can see where many people are at different stages in their progression and the rebuilding their lives. Doug has my deepest respect for recognizing a need and putting this place together. I check back here often, but I think I will be here for a while.
I absolutely love it when people have a sense of humor during these difficult times.

I need this site to know that I am not crazy. I am not the only one on this roller coaster ride, and having no control over it.
I thank everyone who shares their stories...I would be ocmpletely lost without them.