Husband and I have been back together a few months and trying to see if we can save this 30 something year marriage. Our son has not talked to me in 5mos. He was in a domestic situation and took him away so he would not be arrested. He took it out on me and driving fast and angry and upset ran thru a fence, and son called police and I was arrested for a DUI (was drinking earlier) The penalties in calif are tough. Hired an expensive lawyer but they want me to do jail time cause it was a collision, among other penalties and fines. To say the least Im scared upset. I have been waiting for my son to come to me and say something, anything! Today he was talking to my husband in our garage and I drove up, my husband nudged him to say hello, and he does. I say " this not talking is not right and we need to talk" He says he is to busy and I told him to come this evening. He is a no show. I reached out even when Im facing sooo much, mainly because showing him Im wiling at forgiveness and I don't want him to repeat this habit of not talking things out. IM hurt that he won't hardly give me the time of day over this ugly situation and its bringing old issues of my husband letting our son get away with disrespect towards me. I've been playing computer games allnite wanting to cry. thought I would post you guys and se what you thought???
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