Why is it when you think your done and over it you begin to question your decision? I thought I was over it fine with the fact of being done with my marriage but now I am not so sure. I know my husband and I do need time apart even to find ourselves again or especially for me to find myself period. But I am now finding myself wondering if this is a mistake. Before we got married we had been off and on again a few times and yet always came back together. I do love him likely always will and maybe the anxiety feeling was just because when he is in the house I want him but know I can't have him. I know if we were to decide to make this work that we would have to take some time apart to even figure out if this is what we really want (to be apart) or to be together. We do have kids and and yes it does make things harder they do miss their dad but so do I. Sometimes when we do sit and talk with each other we remember good times together but at the same time know we aren't good for each other. We have both put each other through hell (I spend money like it's going out of style and he has cheated) There is a part of me that wants to work through everything, if only we could wipe the slate clean and start over. So my point is if you kick out your spouse and your both kinda seeing other people (trying the dating thing) can it work or can you both reunite and make the marriage work? We would both have some serious issues to work on and better marriage counselling would be a must as well as individual counselling.
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