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deleted_user
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I don't know what to do, I am 2 and a half months pregnant and my boyfriend has left me. He said he will support the baby but not me. I am heartbroken. This is hard enough without being pregnant too, but what should I do about this baby? I'm so scared about being a single mum I'm only 18 and he's already threatening me with custody battles, and trying to manipulate me. And through all of this I can't stop loving him. I can't avoid him because we are both at uni and on the same corridor. Please help :(
FinalFantasy
FinalFantasy
Do you have any family.....? Friends...who you can stick with or will stick with you during this all?

Thats very screwed up for him to treat you like this during a preg. cause I know that your emotions will vary from time to time. I wish you the best (((hugs)))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Im sorry you are haveing such a difficult time at the moment. You need the shock of him going and being pregnant sink in. then start looking after yourself. good luck
deleted_user
deleted_user
whether you are 18 or 38 it is always scary being a first time mom, not that I am a woman but a first time dad would be the same. the whole wolrd is full of advice when it comes to keep baby question's. that is a choice you have to make. Now your boyfriend, never let anybody intimadate you, that is all he is trying to do. It does have to be very difficult for such a young lady. But as tekjoe said, go to family if you can for support.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I've said it before on this forum and I'll say it again...go to your family if you can. No matter what your relationship is/has been with your family, go to them. They will welcome you and your baby and you will (hopefully) have the support that you need.
deleted_user
deleted_user
can you talk to your family?
deleted_user
deleted_user
If you can go to your family, may I suggest that you copy what you wrote here today and all the replies you got and take it to them and show them
deleted_user
deleted_user
I have my mum's support, but no one else's. They all think I should get rid of the baby and move on with my life. My ex has started suffering depression and I don't have a lot of experience with this but it seems to make him act totally in-considerately
deleted_user
deleted_user
whether to keep or get rid of the baby. is your choice, no one else is left with what you have to deal with. If you want my opinion, then look in my hands. thats a choice I CAN LIVE WITH. Anthing is possible and can be done with support and the right attitude. Screw that peice of shit boyfriend.
deleted_user
deleted_user
You are so worried about his depression, what about the depression he has left you with. Does that concern him. I think you hit a nerve here wiyh me. Sorry I am with you all the way.HUGS
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