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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I would NEVER talk to them and one of the good things about not being with ex is I never have to see those people again or at least socialize with them.
I mean, I was in good standing with my inlaws too, and frankly I think inlaws try to be nice even long after the breakup, just to keep peace in the household, but trust me, when it boils right down to it, blood is thicker then water, and if they don't talk bad about you to their faces, they'll talk bad about you away from your face, its how it always works.
I found that out the hard way myself. My first wifes dad, I really loved that guy. Was probably the best friend I ever had, but after we separated, boy did that change. I mean, he was nice to me and everything after that, but he ended up stabbing me in the back so many times after that, it hurt me very deeply for the longest time, because he was my friend. he always listened to me when noone else would, and really was like a father to me, but oh well, its the way it is I guess.
Once they check in, they don't check out. If your marriage survives, you will be sorrrrrry you ever did this.
As the South Pacific song goes...
Blood is ALWAYS thicker than water as everyone else has suggested.
But, it may hurt you as well because like someone said...Blood IS thicker than water...usually.
Though I must say, when it comes to holidays and such I know I will be the one left alone. If there was a choice. Stbx probably won't be around for holidays so we won't have to worry about that one.
If you do go to the in-laws make sure you do it with her best interests at heart. Be careful because yes, blood is thicker than water.
Good luck and take care, Beth
Good Luck
yes.. I agree Blood is Thickier than Water...
Me... lol.. my father in law has been married 4 times....he does not understand what marriage is about and suddenly HE and the long lost son have become close. I am not even going to let them know that I am sick.