Breakups & Divorce Support Group

Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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asking for opinion's

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can we spend to much time in here? What I mean is should I take a breack from this, it seems to me at times that I spend to much time on all of this. I don't know I get confused.
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Joe, I think the samething sometimes, but then I just don't care. Somedays it is all that gets me through the day. I guess not much of an opinion, but that is where I am today. Happy Halloween.
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totally...can be addictive...but it does help me realize...i am NOT alone
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DS has really been a big help for me even though I'm mostly at the end of the official part of the divorce. But the emotional piece of it is still healing.

I have met some WONDERFUL people here and I have often wondered if I've spent too much time here and sometimes I have but it's gotten me through and I've needed that.
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I was joking the other day about the same thing. I find I have it up almost all day. I hope my work isn't monitoring this. Although i think if I didn't have this to check in during the day that I would be sitting here crying and not functioning. So there is that upside. It gives me temporary relief to keep me working through the day. I am also at the beginning of this journey so some at the end may not need as much.
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As with anything, moderation is key!
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If it helps ease our pain I think it's ok to be here as much as you need to be. I am here every weekday during the day.
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If I had not found DS-I'd still be lurking in his fishing sites obsessing with every detail of his new wonderful life.I still keep tabs-mostly for financial and legal reasons-but about 90% less.I 'd rather be here with all of my DS friends than a fishing forum that buys all his bullshit.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
I recently resigned from work, suppose to be on bedrest... have to take a lot of breaks during the day... I pop in and out all day.. I like it.. but yes.. everything needs to be in moderation.

This place is addictive cos we are all in need of companionship... someone to list to us.. someone to comfort us, someone to interact with during the day.

Someone to tell us that we are not alone in this crazy world ....someone to cry with.
A place we can get a virtual hug and feel good for a while. (((((HUGS)))))
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