I have recently started the process of filing for divorce. My husband completely destroyed our marriage and family and has left me with a horrible, horrible mess to deal with. I am completely devastated as I did not see this coming. He has lied, deceived me , misled me and cheated on me. I have tried to be civil to him because we have a very young child and must still have contact because of that. I have gone off on him several times on the phone or via email for what he has done to us as I am completely irate and filled with rage. I never do anything in front of my child and will not ever. The thing that gets me is that he has the nerve to get annoyed with me and tells me that he will no longer listen to me attacking him and gets all arrogant with me because apparently name calling is below him but destroying a person's life was not. This infuriates me even more as he will not even take a bashing even when he knows it is clearly coming to him for what he has done. I tell him that he has destroyed my life and he basically agrees with me but doesn't know what else he can say to change it - so arrogant. I just don't get it - he destroys my life and then is arrogant on top of it. What is the deal?
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