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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

keepthehope
I am tired be told by my wife that I am doing this all to myslef. I am the one who wants to feel mieserable, I want to feel bad and that I am stopping myself in having a good life. What the hell????
Yes I am coping, yes it is hard emotionally but I am not the one who is influencing it. I tell her you don't know because you are not going through it, you are not in my shoes so you can't say that I can be so upbeat and positive that my life has a huge impact change. Its always to be upbeat and positive when you are not the one hurt. I can't believe she give me that sh*t. These people who inflict the pain and carry on as if the world is right, have no idea what they are talking about. They are so wrapped up in themselves that they don't see how truly their partner is hurting and mourning about a life that meant so much to them. I sent a meesege to a friend yesterday about how I thought my wife had changed and how I knew that I had changed in the experience as well. So I started thinking maybe she didn't change and she had been this way the whole time and I didn't truly see how she was in this whole marriage until I woke up in my change. This is something I need to think about a little more go back in my past and see if the behaviors she has now was in the past as well and I just didn't see it.
Yes I am coping, yes it is hard emotionally but I am not the one who is influencing it. I tell her you don't know because you are not going through it, you are not in my shoes so you can't say that I can be so upbeat and positive that my life has a huge impact change. Its always to be upbeat and positive when you are not the one hurt. I can't believe she give me that sh*t. These people who inflict the pain and carry on as if the world is right, have no idea what they are talking about. They are so wrapped up in themselves that they don't see how truly their partner is hurting and mourning about a life that meant so much to them. I sent a meesege to a friend yesterday about how I thought my wife had changed and how I knew that I had changed in the experience as well. So I started thinking maybe she didn't change and she had been this way the whole time and I didn't truly see how she was in this whole marriage until I woke up in my change. This is something I need to think about a little more go back in my past and see if the behaviors she has now was in the past as well and I just didn't see it.
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She obviously wasn't surprised, she planned this, and dealt with all her feelings (if she has any) before she trashed you and your marriage.
Take the time you need, get help if you must to work through the grief, but remember, in no way did you bring this on yourself.