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anything i can do to save it

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deleted_user
I just found this website and I am very excited. I thought for a long time i was the only one out there with these problems. I guess that was a stupid mistake. I seem to have made a lot of those recently. I have been with my "husband" for 10 years next month. I am very much in love with him but he says he is not anymore. He has found someone else and he talks to her EVERY day, more than once a day. We live in NC and she is CA. I still want things to work but he says he doesn't. I just wanted to see if anyone can give me some advice as to what i might be able to try with him. thanks to everyone out there who is reading this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I don't have any words to help you save your marriage. I can offer you my prayers that you are able to save it--if that is what you want. And my support regardless of what happens.

Good Luck
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
lotta people from NC here suddenly. I just found out that NC has stricter laws with marriage and divorce of any others!

I think once the marriage goes over 10 years it's considered 'long term', so stretch out any actions until after the 10 mark
deleted_user
deleted_user
thank you for responding to me - like i said i am new here and i am just glad that there is something like this out there that i can talk about things with and not feel bad about it
deleted_user
deleted_user
To LDN - we have only been married for 6 - together for 10, so unfortunately that wouldn't apply to me - but thank you for the advice
deleted_user
deleted_user
Pardon me being harsh.... but as much as you may be with him... he is no longer "with" you. Let him go = my only advice, and that I can attest to, is not easy. *hugs*.... sorry.
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