Absolutely. You probably wouldn't like it much though.

sure, what do you want to talk about?

I had to carry my wife up the stairs of the hospital to have her breast removed because she was so afraid. then I catch her on her knees with another man. Sorry but it does go both ways.

Coming from a very physically and verbally abused woman. Not all men are mean.... We just got together with the wrong men. There are plenty of very mean women out there. Better luck next time to you.
I hope you heal, before your next relationship.

Here we go again with the "all men are bad" crap. Thank-you to all those woman out there who have realized we are not all terrible "men"!

It's a two way street Sharenea1, if you spend much time on DS and meet people you will see that.

All men are not alike...

All men are mean?

Quando Omni Flunkus Moritati.
(when all else fails play dead)

Picking the wrong men. A few are almost always mean, most (women too) are sometimes, and some are almost never. But mean people in general hang out together and give each other encouragement. So he might be mean and tell you all of his friends think he's right.
Well...let him keep those mean friends...find some of your own.

I believe that there are mean people in general - not just mean men or mean women. I have found some wonderful people of both sexes here!

The DS men have renewed my faith in men. You will not meet a better, sweeter, more caring group of men on the planet. Now if I could find men like them in person.

Well we're all sweeter and more caring online. And we all have other stuff going in our real lives. I believe most, if not all people, are good. We all just make bad mistakes out of fear or not feeling good enough.

I would assume that your myopic observation of the world has led you to the conclusion that men are mean Most of the men that come to this forum have been hurt by the women that they loved at one time or another. We are all in a healing stage, I believe that is why most of us on here. .. I could use my frame of reference of the unhealthy relationships that I have formed in the past and come to the a similar conclusion that you have that women are bitter nags.

However I know better because I have taken the time to get to know some of the extraordinary kind and giving women on this wonderful forum. I see how women conduct themselves during a divorce, and how there are women who will all that they can do to repair a marriage and not just simply give up.

Yeah, you can't make gross generalizations about anything-all x's are y, all men are mean.

I thought I was the only guy who felt the way I did, but those guys here have shown me that there are good people-both guys and gals who do believe that things can get better. I believe that people are basically good. I believe it is the pain and hurt they experience that a lot of times determines how they react to situations. Like us all, change our situation and most likely we will change our attitude.

Just a thought.

Hope, Happiness, Love

All men aren't mean! I know alot of great men. We are just hurt so we feel like all men are bad, think about the otherside of the coin, men could and do see women like that too. And I'm not mean!

It seems to be a natural response that once we are hurt, we tend to want to condemn the other sex, one and all. Somehow it helps to think it is all of them as mean and not just the one that we picked out.

DS has really helped me move beyond that and I am truly grateful!