hi kelly, I don't know what advice to give you, but I'm here.

thanks I just don't know what to do about it. This hurt me more than him leaving

do you want to go into a chat room?

Lets think about this...

If you confront him he will know that this bothers you and he may just start flanting it to you.

If you confront him he will figure out you read his email, and he will change his password.

To me your feelings are normal, anger at him, and he should be wide awake worring about his lovely wife, who may never forgive him for being a cheater...

Not much help but may give you a bit of comfort, and to let you know someone else is awake.

Can you use some of the details in his email to get him to talk about it. i.e. I know about blank, what do you have to say about it. He will probably be off guard that he won't be thinking how you found out.

I have to agree with love2fly...if you confront, he will know you read his email and will change the password...

My question is do you feel like confronting him and having to speak those words to him AND have him respond. I'm not sure I could put those words out and listen to any type of answer, so I personally would just be sad, hurt, angry, frustrated, lonely, scared, I could go on...but I would live with that instead of confronting him and hearing some BullFuckingShit story I'm sure he's gonna say....

thanks for responging. I have caught him so many lies lately that I can't count them anymore. I have not confronted him about them. It was a gut feeling I had and it was confirmed tonight. I was feeling better now I can't sleep. I feel so alone right now.

I say love is right. You have a definite advantage, sick and hurtful as it is. Don't tel him how you know, just that you DO know. You are going to be shaky and vulnerable for a couple days, maybe less if you get as pissed off as you will be once the dust settles. My advice is to stay here with us to lean on or get a friend or relative to come and calm you until you can think rationally. We are here.

You're not alone, we're thinking about you. I'll keep checking into the chat rooms if you want to talk.

We are all awake too, so don't feel lonely and know your in good company.

I confronted my husband when he cheated and lied... he answered everyone of my questions honestly, and I can still hear his voice telling me why he chose her over me, it is not a good thing to hear... Even if he lies to you what good is all this going to do for your confidence.

He is not a nice man, he lies, and cheats, who wants to talk to that guy. NOT A NICE GIRL LIKE YOU.