My stbx left me and my 3 kids in August of last year. He moved about 3 hours away. He has taken care of us financially, and he has been envolved with me and my kids every weekend since he left, (either us visiting him, or him just coming home for the weekend), in which I am very thankful. The problem is he told me in Sept. he wanted a divorce but we didn't have the money. He has told me our marriage is over and that he is not moving back home. But, he still involves me in his life with certain things. I am just wondering is he using me or what? I still love him with all my heart and I would do anything in the World for him. He still says the same thing today, that he doesn't want to spend money that we really don't have. But, if he wants the divorce, why can't he just leave me alone? He wants us to be friends and stay close because of the children, but I don't know if I just can be friends with him. I guess the hardest part of your spouse leaving is the change that is being made. Can anyone help me on this matter?
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