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October 25, 2007
Just now sitting here staring at this frigging computer, I hurt. I hurt for myself and for my friends and for all the DS ships that passed this way in the night. Jut now, I'm suddenly angry. I thought that emotion was in check. I'm angry that we have been hurt...many of us without any provocation. I'm angry at the threads that say "Examine your part in the destruction of your marriage" I am angry that it is assumed that just one person in that relationship could not have been the primary catalyst for evil and betrayal.
And, yet here we sit and analyze the crap out of ourselves... question our communication skills...doubt our worthiness as attractive, desirable mates. I am challenged to look for a healthy relationship in the future. To learn how to build trust and friendship and leave desire on hold until I am healthy enough to handle it responsibly. I know that is the right way to proceed. But, it seems I have been on hold for a very, very long time! That makes me very angry, for me and for all the others like me.
I'm not back sliding. I will recover my humor and joy. I will not give in to recklessness and shallow diversions. But right now, I'm just looking at the place on the road where I am standing. I do not like standing here by myself. I do not like it one bit.
Hang in there
I sense that I am "bitter" today, lol.