
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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When my ex served me the papers I decided to write her a letter telling her how much she meant to me and my life. It was 4 pages long and said EVERYTHING I ever felt and thought about. I poured my heart out. Of course during the seperation I wrote her other letters and poems, bought flowers, gave her space, called when she wanted to talk to me, sent her cards, tried marriage counsling myself (she didn't want to do it). Was that all a mistake? Did anyone else do something along those lines?
I never yelled at her from the time she asked me to move out to the time she asked me to sign the papers. Any e-mails that we exchanged after the signing were pleasant and very polite. I believe that I never gave her an excuse to hate me, except maybe when I confronted her about seeing someone the next day after I signed the papers.
I have never received anything from her telling me how much I meant to her, that hurts the most. Maybe it was a mistake to pour my heart out. She never said goodbye to my family even though I wrote letters to her family. I feel like the odd man out here on DS. Am I?
I never yelled at her from the time she asked me to move out to the time she asked me to sign the papers. Any e-mails that we exchanged after the signing were pleasant and very polite. I believe that I never gave her an excuse to hate me, except maybe when I confronted her about seeing someone the next day after I signed the papers.
I have never received anything from her telling me how much I meant to her, that hurts the most. Maybe it was a mistake to pour my heart out. She never said goodbye to my family even though I wrote letters to her family. I feel like the odd man out here on DS. Am I?
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But, I called her today and we talked for about 10 minutes, just small talk mostly. And, she was not hostile at all and she's being ok about our friendship. So far, at least I have that to hang on to--it's better than losing her altogether.
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