Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Anyone 3 months along in the breakup? It's been just over 3 months for me and a good friend commented on how well I am doing compared to how he was doing around the same time in his. I have to say that it kind of made me feel good and also feel that if I am doing this good at this point how much better I feel to have lost those 270 pounds ( 250 pounds of it being my husband)1
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i am 3 1/2 months along and i feel pretty good, still have to make a consicous effort to not clench my jaw all the time, i have not had any contact with stbx in this time except for 3 e-mails and some text messages regarding my daughter, but i haven't heard her voice or seen her in this time.
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Me too, 3.5 months....foggy at times but getting there....like B9..clenching of the jaw has become the norm.
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yeah, contact- well, one minute we are arguing over household issues still pending and the next minute he is calling me up wanting to talk as though we are still friends, what the hell? he wanted out to begin with and now that I am complete and utter agreement he just doesn't know what to think.
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GOOD FOR YOU!!! I'm 3 months in on the 2nd of May and am not doing worth a F**k. Separated and Divorced in less than 2 months....SUCKS ASS BIG TIME.....
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i didn't even find this site until 4-5 months after he had left. i hadn't thought about it, but i was still crying a lot at 3 months. i was also really scared to be on my own with my daughter. finding DS and reading and listening to everyone here has helped me to grow and change so much and, I guess, really quickly, too. thanks to everyone here and best of luck to you.
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wow! i started to say 3 months and so many days..its been 4 months yesterday and i rock *looking over shoulder for rollercoaster*
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FREINDS??!! i can top that and yes consider this a rant!..yesterday met him and the ups store to sign bank papers..when he was leaving he said gimme a kiss and i'll go..i calmly (thinking what fucktard) said we're not kissing anymore...but wtf?!
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Ok, MSDE, did that mean you kissed?
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f**k no
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It will be 3 months next week since he left and 2 1/2 mos since I found out about her. Still almost confused today as the day he left. WTF? Guess I'm a more than a little slow. I'm glad you're doing well though.
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broken it jst takes everyone different times..dont be hard on yourself..you'll be ok again sooner than you think
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I'm quite a bit more than 3 months but I remember how it was then. I was actually just starting to heal at that time...was still having a bit of a hard time with the knowledge that he'd actually cheated but I was feeling like a human being again. I'm about 90-95% normal again 14 months after the breakup. I'm not sure if I'll ever make the 100% mark but I know that I'll get very close when my case is completely over. Just keep hanging in there and don't get discouraged when you have bad days...things are usually better in the next day or so. :)
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