I recently caught my wife cheating. After I thought everything was just fine. She never expressed any kind of thing that was wrong. Things in the bedroom were crazy as ever and everything was going great. We had our arguements just like everyone else. I only caught her because I had forgotten to change my shoes for work. When I returned home within 10 minutes she was already gone. She had gone and went to his place that night in the twin cities as well as the night before when she told me she was at her sisters... both nights... and now I've turned out somehow into the bad guy. She decided to chose him. I moved out and he moved in. We're not even divorced legally yet. She and her man thought it would be funny one night to Instant message me with photos of them naked with each other. She's hurt me enough but she just can't let bleeding to death dogs lay. I just found an instant message between the two of them the day before she went to his house. I was sleeping at the time it was going on. She had gotten naked for him on the web cam. On my laptop for work and school. The message was an hour before she had come into the bedroom and woke me up to have sex with me. The next day she left with him. I'm freaking out! I'm scared to go to sleep at night because when I do all I see is those pictures playing out in my nightmares. She went from being my wife one minute to being someone 180 degrees from that. I can hardly get myself to sleep unless I pass out and I don't hardly eat unless I force myself to do so. Does anyone out there know what's going on? Can anyone help me?
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