I am so tired of people telling me (friends and family) that by now I should be "feeling better about this" or "getting closure". Does anybody else feel that way? I don't think our feelings are up for debate or calculated according to a time table, but that everybody's different in how long it takes them to adjust and heal from the hurt and emotional damage they're dealing with. Who makes the rules, policy and procedure that go along with having your whole world change?
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