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Hello, everyone. Im new here and am hoping to get some advice for my poor nephew over in Bagadad. (Army). Is anyone up to hearing this poor kid's dilima? (He's 21 yrs old). Well in short.... he was stationed over in Fort Bragg in NC and needless to say his girlfriend he met there kind of pressued him into marriage 5 mos ago. Well the poor guy had saved up approx 14K prior to and after he got married. You can guess the rest. The bank account was the only thing this she-devil cleaned before leaving town and starting divorice proceedings. She left their poor kitty in the apt for nearly 2 weeks then the neighbors heard the poor cat crying loudly and that's when the trashed apt was discovered. Not only is the Apt Manager holding my nephew liable for the damage, but she didn't pay rent for a few months either, although my nephew had sent his lovely wife the money to pay it with. She apparently was not happy that he "ignored her". (per her "my space blog" Never mind that he's been at war for nearly two years. He was due for discharge in a couple of months, but now that she's left him penniless he's re-enlisting for two more years. We have heard that she moved to another town but don't have the exact address nor phone number. (and it's not as if we could call her that she would say ooops sorry, here is his hard earned money I helped myself to). It's awful since my newphew cannot take any legal action since he's over there. This has devestated his mother (my sister). Plus the fact that we lost our mother earlier this month, our dad's cancer is back and now this! Please....any sugguestions is appreciated. thanks.
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Yes, there are many dark sides to this story, and I feel for him and for you and his mother. However, he is young, G-d willing he will have plenty of time to earn money back, and he hopefully will take plenty of time before he gets himself into another marriage, lessons learned. The best advice that I can give to you, which will in many ways be more difficult to do than anything, is to let it go. It will cost him more money in legal fees than he would get back if he were to pursue this legally. Additionally, from Bagdhad, he can't be a part of it. He would have to completely entrust his case to somebody else who know nothing of who he is or where his money went, and probably doesn't really care as long as he gets his $300 and hour. Let it go and be thankful for the positives. I am so sorry about the death of your Mother and your Father's cancer...instead of focusing your energy on a woman who is not worth an ounce of it, focus on the time your father has left, and together with him focus on all of the ways that your mother is still with you via memories, and the way she raised you to be a loving, caring person. Pain aside, your nephew will be OK.
G-d bless him for serving our country- although I am so against the war, I have a place in my heart for every one of those soldiers that are doing their job with courage, faith, and dedication to their committment and their people. Good luck, and be well.
Just don't get caught up chasing a shadow...
No matter what state he is from or resides in there are laws to protect him from this sort of scamming and make no mistake..he's been scammed.
I sent you a private message outlining some of this. Your nephew is protected by the Soldiers and Sailors Act..but he needs to act quickly.