stbx came home yesterday , ate dinner with us and left at 5:45 and was out til almost 9:30. today he didnt arrive home til 5:45 and he has the neerve to ask my oldest what he ate for dinner and he , of course told him ,, but then shortly thereafter stbx stormed out saying he forgot to buy milk on the way here. he comes home about 1/2 hour later with milk and a subway grinder. he just did it to slap it in my face that i didnt save him grilled cheese and soup. THEN he proceeds to get the apple pie out with ice cream . the apple pie my mom's friend sent over. NOT FOR HIM EITHER. how can he eat it with a clear conscious? answer me that. Anyway ive got chest pains now cause he's home. i didnt b4 he arrived. we're in the same house together. he crawls into my bed at night and im so tense in my back . i sleep thru the night but my back aches all the next day. Someone have any words of wisdom.