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My imagination keeps running wild and I get pictures in my head of my stbx having sex with the OM. Sleeping and the thought of sex have not been easy, they have both been tainted for me for the moment.
Any ideas on how to get some of these thoughts off the brain. Relief comes and goes some days are better than others. It's wierd because I never kow what will trigger the thoughts, a love song, people talking about sex.....it could be anything.
I feel the only way I will get over it is to have a meaningful connecton with another woman but I am nowhere near ready to connect with anyone that way. I need to take time to heal myself first so that I can grow a meaningful connection when I find one.
Any ideas on how to get some of these thoughts off the brain. Relief comes and goes some days are better than others. It's wierd because I never kow what will trigger the thoughts, a love song, people talking about sex.....it could be anything.
I feel the only way I will get over it is to have a meaningful connecton with another woman but I am nowhere near ready to connect with anyone that way. I need to take time to heal myself first so that I can grow a meaningful connection when I find one.
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