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i approached my stbx tonight about plans with the boys for this weekend. we got talking and he wanted to know if id like to talk with him about ideas to bring up in mediation within the next 30 days. he had the idea that maybe my mom would want to buy out the portion of our house and sell her house, to move here. my mom isnt gonna go for that . she has a job and everything. the other idea was to have his mom buy out my portion and she'd move in with him here. WELL IM NOT GOING FOR THAT! Then he'd have the boys and his mom doing the bus route etc. BULL SHIT! any other ideas. he claims he cannot afford the house. and i know i cant on my own. i told him its not for him to decide cause the court will tell us if he can. the other idea he had was he knows theres an apartment for rent the end of next month. he said he'd move in to it if he can and then eventually when everything is almost done we'd swap . Id live there. he'd go with his mom temporarily. then he'd find a place too. i dont know. any ideas, anyone? What are some of your arrangements?or agreements?
take into consideration a lot of things.. like the equity.. is it such an investment that you want to keep it?... put it on the market.. I found that selling to a relative is a big mistake... selling to his family you will not get a fair market price.
He and Mom have something up their sleeve... talk to you lawyer.. and your family.